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Cliteracy: What is it and How Can it Invigorate Your Sex Life?

“How is it that we landed on the moon and walked around 29 years before we discovered the anatomy of the clitoris?” - Sophia Wallace   In middle school, most of us learn about our bodies and the amazing changes that await them but of course, not all sex education programs are made equal. In fact, most of them are less-than-effective.According to the American Journal of Public Health, one major problem with the way we learn about sex is that pleasure is too often left out of the equation - especially with regards to women. Surely, none of us ladies are surprised but we’re disappointed nonetheless.  We trust our education to equip us with the information we need to navigate real-life situations - in this case, the ability to maintain a happy, healthy sex life but most of the time, society fails to deliver. Literacy is a common concern among educators but unfortunately, to the detriment of our sex lives, cliteracy isn’t even on their radars. What is Cliteracy? Cliteracy refers to...

How sex toys help us in real life

So, why use sex toys ? Well, one could ask, why use hair dryers, water heaters or electric fans? We use machines in our day to day lives all the time. We do this because, simply put, machines are capable of feats that humans are not. When it comes to women’s sexual pleasure, and vulva-owners’ sexual pleasure, toys can be an incredible tool to unlock sensuality, orgasms and liberation. The first vibrators ever were invented by doctors because they used to treat women with “hysteria” by giving them orgasms. Eventually the doctors’ hands would get tired and they had to invent a toy to give the woman the orgasm instead of them by hand. We have come very far since then in the array of toys you can now play with. Using sex toys is an investment for ourselves Nowadays there are so many options and the truth is, there is something out there for everyone. Some people need toys to orgasm- and that is absolutely fine, normal and should not be shamed. Sex toy stigma is so outdated. As a sex coach,...

Why do we need masturbation?

If there is something we have all had heaps of in the last year and a half- it’s alone time, which has made my job, as a Sex and Pleasure Coach, extremely interesting. All of a sudden, we had time on our hands. All of our schedules were called off, plans canceled, borders closed and we were faced with something many of us struggle with: being on our own. Many horrible things have come from this pandemic, but many positives have come from it as well. One of them being that people began to invest in their self care and self pleasure routines. Masturbation is a completely normal, healthy way for us to explore our desires, bring ourselves pleasure, relieve stress, and learn more about our bodies. However, many of us feel shame around this innocent activity due to sex negative cultural, societal and religious messaging. We are forced to analyze and question the negative sexual scripts we have been given and decide if we actually believe in them or not. Then, we can plant new and more sex-po...

Mindfulness is the key to more orgasms

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Introducing a sex toy into the bedroom brings new life to your self-love sexual experiences. It’s an opportunity to try something new and a little naughty. We need to keep it interesting - especially with ourselves. I recommend going for something small and non-phallic like the Osuga Cuddly Bird toy. What makes this toy so special is that it isn’t like your classic vibrator. It is a clitoral sucking toy. This toy surrounds the clitoris with air and suction, creating a similar sensation to oral sex. Plus, it’s absolutely adorable and not scary at all. It is next level, folx.  If you’re into G-spot stimulation, the OSUGA MoonFlow is unlike any toy you’ve ever experienced. It doesn’t even look like a sex toy - it looks like a beauty appliance. It’s powerful, whisper quiet, and very fun for self-exploration.  Lots of people get intimidated by sex toys, but they really shouldn’t! Sex toys are TOYS. They’re additions to make sex even more enjoyable. Orgasms are amazing and you sh...